Spring is a time when we are called to clean up the old and make room for the new. How will you heed the call?
If you’ve felt lately that you’re overwhelmed, your to-do list is getting longer instead of shorter, and you can’t imagine getting a handle on clutter, I’m going to show you the steps I’ve taken that can help you with that.
Keeping it clean, but not super-clean. I fail to keep a Good Housekeeping-worthy, neat-as-a-pin house. My own mother liked to remind me that as a child, I would leave clean clothes slung over a desk chair in my room (also, I would wash everything but the pots after dinner but that’s another story. Sorry, mom.)
I believe that not having the super-neat gene (it skipped a generation) is good for my marriage. For one thing, my husband grows orchids. Over one hundred of them take up indoor residency during winter months. Orchids and the bark they grow in are a messy business and pieces of bark turn up in unlikely places. I place a high value around cleanliness, and am grateful to delegate it to someone who enjoys cleaning and is much better at it than I am.
Delegation is sweet liberation. [Click here to tweet. Thank you!]
I am in the business of de-cluttering minds and easing hearts, guiding clients from messy thoughts to clear and conscious action. So it may come as a surprise that sometimes I have my own challenges related to letting go of what’s no longer needed. Because I know that many of you can relate, I ‘m sharing some simple yet powerful tips to clear the space that surrounds you.
Step up to the distasteful project. Decluttering the basement storage room completely lacked appeal and urgency for me. It was super easy to ignore, being out of sight, behind a closed door and down two flights of stairs. But I knew that messy space was there. It gnawed at me. I felt the call to declutter but it wasn’t easy to jump into action without a timetable. Perhaps you have a decluttering project hanging over you?
What happens when we don’t pony up to the call? I’ll speak for myself. It takes up space on my list and weighs on my mind, a two-ton forget-me-not of what I have not done. As a result, I spend depleting energy focused on what I haven’t done, which only perpetuates a state of UN-desire.
Enlist a partner for “thirty minutes.” For most people, the hardest part of decluttering is getting started, especially getting started solo. This spring, I seized upon a powerful incentive. Our neighbors had a dumpster in their driveway and it was not going to be there forever. One rainy Sunday, I playfully presented to my husband, “We’re going downstairs. Thirty minutes. Let’s see what we can do.” [You are welcome to use this line with your partner or child. Then let me know how it goes. Dropping a clear “invitation” in advance is also recommended.].
What I noticed is that the act of starting with a small commitment in scope and time carries positive energy that carries momentum. Although my husband and I agreed to thirty minutes, we got swept up in making visible progress. In two hours, we tackled ninety percent of the clutter, removed it from the back room for donations and out to the dumpster. We got rid of the mess mercilessly and without regrets. It was easier than I imagined.
The act of clearing our environment quiets the mind. [Click here to tweet. Thank you!]
I felt relieved, lighter, more open, like I had extra bandwidth. I was surprised by how many items we let go of, how many things we could do without, how much we had saved, for years, that we would never miss. I admit to feeling rather smug and accomplished. We celebrated our near-complete dusty endeavor with a crisp pour of pinot.
Minimize the task. We cleared almost all of the clutter from our basement. Letting go in one area begs the question: What else will we release to make space for new opportunities?
I challenge you to short-list what you want to simplify and let go of in your life, then to cut your list by fifty percent. Tim Ferris, author of The Four Day Workweek stands by his philosophy that letting go of most items/activities on your list won’t cost you a thing. Imagine what it would it be like to let go of fifty percent of your list! It calls for getting serious about your choices, making bold decisions and setting clear boundaries.
Here’s a quick recap of 7 Essential Ways to Declutter with Success:
- Delegate to someone who enjoys the tasks that you don’t.
- Set a due date to create urgency and a small time chunk to make it easier to initiate the project.
- Enroll a partner to join you.
- Identify a strong incentive for completion and aim for good enough, not perfection.
- Imagine what it would be like if it was easy.
- Experiment with cutting your list by fifty percent.
- Acknowledge and celebrate your accomplishment. Let it fuel your next one!
Studies show that we are significantly more creative and productive when our environment supports us. When we heed the call to declutter, it opens wide our capacity for to create and manifest new opportunities.
Spring is an ideal time to get a move on and you can start from wherever you are. Will you join me and STOP staring at the runaway items on your list? I’m D-O-N-E keeping things on the list that don’t get completed or amount to enough. I’m decluttering. Dumpster style.
Do you have challenges with decluttering too? What’s important to you about getting a handle on clutter?